Thursday, 9 June 2016

MY TALES : Love is about sacrifices too...

I TRIED TO SPEAK TO PEOPLE BUT THEY WERE COLD AS ICE, SO NOW I SPEAK IN MY MIND TO THE DEMONS IN MY PARADISE.
@The Obsolete Poet


Numb: I can’t be with you.

Thepu: Yes, you can because that’s what both of us want. You know, things can be different. I could be different. And I am promising you, I’m swearing to you, there will be no more lies.

Numb: You know, no matter how much you love me, there’s always going to be a part of you that defaults to the man you were. And sooner than we both think, you’re going to be stuck in a situation where you have to make a decision that requires you to hide things from me again.

Thepu: See, you can’t know that.

Numb: I do know that, and you know that too Thepu. That’s this life you don’t need me, you’ll be fine.

Thepu: So what does that means?

Numb: It means that it is too hard to be with you every day and not be with you. That’s not fair to either of us. You don’t give up, that’s what makes you Thepu. Wonderful career is waiting for you ahead but there’s no fixing this. We have to let each other go.

Thepu: Numb, I don’t want to let you go.

Numb: Even I don’t want to let you go. But I’m already gone Thepu. You just have to get used to it....

POST SCRIPT : 

I don't know what is more appropriate "to love someone enough to let her go" or "to love someone enough to never let her go".

On the off chance that you have reasons to trust that she would be more satisfied and happier far from you (which implies that she's not happy with you or the relationship is not working for her for some unkown reasons) then, if you let her go, you are telling that you love her. It's like you want to see her to be happy regardless of every single reason, no matter with who and it's like ALRIGHT for you, yet you sort of make this sacrifice so as to make her life simpler, easier and less difficult. As I would see it, love is about sacrifices as well, if you REALLY love her, you want to see her to have a cheerful life and a smile all over right? That is it. 

I know it's entirely difficult to think this way yet we can't see just our side of happines always. We ought to look the other in her eyes everyday and locate a little satisfaction. If we don't, we try to fill the unfilled eyes and if we are not ready to do it so letting her go is the best. It doesn't mean you are giving up on her, it means that you respect her decision. 

I know it's much harder to let you know... It can keep going forever to heal if you genuinely loves her however the reality of the situation will become obvious eventually and the memories will turn sweet and it will get less demanding and easier. Time makes everything less demanding and easier.. furthermore, you can even love once more, keep it in mind !

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